Guys and Gals….listen up. It’s time to work out if you are 100% ready to get engaged. You love her/him, that’s obvious, but how do you know if it’s time to move things up a gear? Here at Proposers HQ, we are experts when it comes to all things slushy…and proposals are one of those things we know EVERYTHING about.
Proposing is going to be one of those moments you will never forget….especially if the person you are proposing to isn’t quite ready and says no (gulp!) So, here are some questions you need to ask yourself to work out if you are ready or not. Deep breath….and GO!
1.Am I willing to compromise? Getting married means learning to compromise for the rest of your life after all it’s not just about YOU anymore. By getting engaged you might lose some of your personal freedom (no more kissing other people or keeping your finances to yourself). Are you ready to give this element of freedom up?
2.Do I like his/her friends? “Marry me….marry my friends”. Isn’t that how the saying goes? Believe it or not, getting on with each others friends is important. You don’t have to be best mates but you do have to be able to tolerate them After all they are going to be around for the long haul too!
3.Am I completely committed to this one person? Getting married means you are in it forever…together. Can you image yourselves as an old married couple, looking after each other when you are ill and going through big life changes together?
4. Would I sacrifice anything for them? If you had to give up your favourite activity for this person, are you willing to do it?
Answer yes to all of the above? Then it’s time to start thinking about proposing! If you know you want to propose, but don’t know how to do it, then that’s where we can help! We are experts when it comes to proposal planning – we can help you come up with ideas and even put them all together for you! So, if you would like some help with some proposal ideas then get in touch!